How can I get my mom to spend time with me and do I have depression (Symptoms added) 10points best answer!

OK first of all you wrote a ton of stuff I didn't read all of it ......BUT!!!! I will tell you this, if you find one of your mom's interested that you may be interested in even if you pretend to for starters, she she will start to find some of your interests that she may have in common, because believe it or not your MOM was once a young girl with the same problems you're having....It is possible for you to come to a common ground on at least one thing ....and BUILD from there.... GOOD LUCK....Ok I read everything before I submitted yes depression...sounds like your Manic depressive...or bi-polar sometimes you need very little sleep and get very anxious and sometimes your depressive need lots of sleep and hard to get started... the eating thing is part of your self treatment ( a quick fix of fulfillment ) but this all stems from the family life you have right now and if you don't find a way to help this situation this will need clinical help.....again good luck....Try to get your mom's attention even if it to shame her into it....your mom sounds like she also is lonely and is looking for the virtual life.... you both can help each other....