Is it normal for a girl to not want to "play" with herself during ?

i never asked this before to anyone and i thought it would be a godo idea to ask and find out, im kinda shy, and i want a way that i can still have fun during , and not be shy.. sounds kinda weird but when i haev a guy "play" then it is easier to get off but, i wont do it to myself, how else can i get off, if i dont "play" if ya think im weird for askin im sorry btu i had to find out... can anyone help..if not its ok..oo and im nto much for toys, ill use em on my own time but not with a guy, I NEED TO GET LESS SHY AROUND GUY DURING , LOL SOMEONE HELP ME OUT HERE!!!